Monthly Archives: July 2010

something fishy is in the air!


Asia woke up the other day and the first thing she said was i saw a big fish in the water.  This is the first time ever that she told us or even hinted to that she had a dream. of corse i know she dreams all the time, and at times she even talks in her sleep. but she has never talked about it. so this was a surprise and i knew it must have been very vivid because she kept talking about it.
Now my father in law, he is from barbados, and he told me when ever he has a dream about a fish some one is pregnant.
Louis and I even had a book about dreams at some point, but we had to stop looking at it to see what our different dreams ment!
But i find it so interesting, im very facinated at how that could be possible. sometimes its like  communication without a single word spoken or even souls being in the same presence.  but yet a message have been send and recieved.  Im truly intriged  because i do believe there is so much more than what we can see and hold on to.
Well back to where i was going with it all, 2 days ago we learned that a very good friend of ours is expecting. Its still very early but
you know who u are Ms, and we are so happy for you and pray that god will keep his blessings coming ur way! and let you continue to grow together as a family!

So i guess Asia has been blessed with a gift as well!
Im so proud that god has send u our way miss Asia! You are so bad but so precious to us! :0)


In loving memory of Mr. Harmon…


mr harmon

Another angel have been called home.

As much as you try to prepare your self for death, theres really no way its possible.  Mr. Harmon have fought cancer for a long time, and i am thankful that he is no longer in pain.  I am however just still alittle selfish and wish that I could just have one more conversation with him, sit on his couch one more time and hear his stories or his laughter.
Even though Ive only had the pleasure of knowing him for a short period of time, he has touched me, and  amazed me, and made me admire the strength of a strong man. He has fathered 3 children of his own, but also filled out the shoes of being a father figure to boys who didnt have a one.  I can only imagine, knowing how much it takes to be a succesful man, but also a father, husband, brother, uncle, friend and co=worker ect, how hard it must have been to find time to care for others in a fatherly figure way. But somehow he did it, and not only did he do it but he did it with a smile.
From the day I met him, he has embraced me and accepted me, like he had known me all my life, he loved our kids and gave me stories from when they went thru this stage we are in now. wich helped me more than what i can describe in words.
I am thankful for what he means and the difference he has made in my husband’s life, as well as how open-hearted and open minded he was, knowing how many seasonal changes he has been thru , presidents and how many changes in this world,  he has seen with his own eyes!
And yet in the four years that ive known him, i have NEVER heard him complain about anything!, Not even about his sickness!
I was always greeted with a kiss and a smile, and i would return his kindness and ask how he was doing and the answer never changed, im awrrrright, followed by a smile and a story!

And we are not the only ones that are blessed with knowing him, at his funeral, I met a man. And as we got to talking, I asked him how he knew Mr. Harmon, and he said they where childhood friends, ( mind you, mr harmon was 73 years young) and he as well had many stories and one big smile on his face when i asked him about mr. Harmon.  As our conversation was ending, he told me he had to get back on the road and head home, to my surprise, home to him is in Florida.  i watched him get in his car and drive off. Florida is more than 20 hours away from here by car. But he made that trip up here to see mr. Harmon 1 last time.
Now Thats a friendship,  and that to me says alot about what type of  guy Mr. Harmon was! But knowing Mr. Harmon he would have done the same in a heartbeat! with or without his license !

We love you and miss you already uncle Everett
Asia, Naomi, Maliyah,  Louis and Fie

Lately i’ve been an non blogging @ss!


so much have happend in the last few weeks,  packing all our stuff down from our old apt in germany. driving to denmark with alot of stuff! getting shot for the girls right, getting paper work done for the dogs so they could fly back to the US.
Finding a place to stay, flying back to jersey. getting settled and use to the time difference.
Finding a family routine with Louis being home also. IM not complaining it just been busy busy busy. alittle chaotic at times with 3 kids and 2 dogs and moving from one country to another. But i love my circus and I wouldnt know how to have it any other way.